Sunday, September 14, 2014
Be strong
Sunday, August 10, 2014
pre-school social problem
Tuesday, July 15, 2014
Sunday, July 13, 2014
Saturday, July 12, 2014
update
I graduated from my UNSW Sydney last July 2013, and after that I joined an oil service company as Field Engineer Trainee.
Yesterday, I had my exit interview with my manager who kept on accusing I am such a stubborn person who didn't want to accept I am growing a career with them. I was labelled as as person who thought 'he himself is smarter, genius than the company' when I mentioned about my unhappiness with the career development. I was told, I have right to voice out anything, I was told I can be independent, I was told I ll get proper mentor, I was told I ll be assist, I was told I ll get great career, I was told a lot of stuffs. But the last 5 months I was there, I don't feel/ see those promise are being fulfilled. I complaint that my manager had no time for me which my manager disagreed and trying to defend with bucket of reasons.
I had so much bad experience either it is about working procedures, safety, working instructions, JSA, and so much. they are mainly personal behavior problems. I was questioned back why If I know they are better way which is safer than the current one, why don't you just write the procedures yourself and implent it? Thats true, unfortunately, interms of support, I realised, I won't get help because people are always busy. My manager said I can asked for help from them, but daily actions speaks themselves better than words. No, I won't get help, support, assistance and etc. So how can I make the changes. If i were to speak about using power based on my position, unfortunately, it won't happen.
When I raised thing I ve seen on how other companies treats their people on safety, my manager laughed lot about it... Yea, just because we are big, we think we are perfect, unfortunately, i feel down with all those promise. I was even told "if you want to be safe, just stay at home"
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
As day goes by...
Saturday, May 24, 2014
Elliot Rodgers - the virgin killer
Elliot Rodger killed 6 while injured 7 before he shot dead. A day before the massacre, he posted a video in the Youtube, telling the world about his loneliness feeling, GF-less. In his 8 mins video, he even posted,
"I am 22 years old, and I' still virgin, no girl is attracted to me"
Due to above reason, he decided to kill some of the women who rejected him before. This is sad, unimaginable and hard to swallow reality. This guy killed 6 and injured 7 due to he feel he is unlucky when he compared to his friends/other guys. He feels he is out of the norms in his society.
Wednesday, February 5, 2014
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Monday, February 3, 2014
Sunday, February 2, 2014
Being humble like before and more...
Thursday, January 23, 2014
something to ponder on...
“You can’t change someone’s behaviour, all you can do is remind them, and hope that Allah will change their heart.”
-Nouman Ali Khan
“When you’re going through something hard and you start wondering where Allah is, just remember, the Teacher is always quiet during a test.”
-Nouman Ali Khan
“Your sin is not greater than God’s mercy.”
-Nouman Ali Khan
“If we were truly the people of “Alhamdullilah” we wouldn’t find the time, energy, or motivation to complain.”
-Nouman Ali Khan
“We live in a society where we wake up our kids for school but not Fajr.”
-Nouman Ali Khan
“Just because you’re a Believer, doesn’t mean your safe from the Hell-fire.”
-Nouman Ali Khan
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Crocodile mucus use to cure disease
2) Hadith - Sahih Bukhari, Book 25, Number 5466, Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah ![]()
"There is a remedy for every malady, and when the remedy is applied to the disease it is cured with the permission of Allah, the Exalted and Glorious."
3) Hadith - Muslim, narrated Jabir Bin 'Abdillah ![]()
" Every disease has a medication: If the medication for a particular disease is found, it will be cured with Allah's (swt) permission."
Monday, January 20, 2014
I am excited
I was informed by my recruiting manager that the next induction program is in February and he will put me for that slot if it is still available (what, if it is not available? Then I have to wait for March one). I fell down to learn that my OFS-1 induction was cancelled.
But 2 weeks ago, I was informed that there is one OFS-1 slot available and the recruiting manager asked me if I am interested to go for that one. Of course I am, especially after being informed, the training will be held in Abu Dhabi!!
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| I really want to visit this building- Burj of Arab. Photo courtesy of link |
Now everything are like what have been planned, I have received my return ticket via email. I will fly to Abu Dhabi via KL and the transit time in KL is 6 hrs. urghhh.. Few days to go :)
What is OFS-1 actually?
Based on information I received through friend and mostly are from blogs I read, OFS-1 is just an induction program to introduce SLB, what they are doing, signing a contract, Quality, health, Safety and Environment (QHSE) briefing. So they are mainly lectures. Only after attending this OFS-1 I will be qualified to work at the base and workshops.
I will write more on this upon my return back to Brunei after my week long induction program.
The first few things that come up on my mind after being informed about Abu-Dhabi, I pictured Burj of Arab and Kebab (its proper name is Doner Kebab- Actual definition of Kebab is just a skewer !!. Yea I have been craving for Middle-East kebab- which is not available anywhere in Brunei.
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| Doner kebab. Photo courtesy of link |
When I was in Sydney, I only realised the uniqueness of Quad Kebab- which is available at my Uni' food courts few months before I was back for good. What a loss! Now 6 months have passed and my craving is still there and growing.
Sometimes, I found myself a bit too much weirdo- where I will stare at kebab photo in my computer. I Can't help to satisfy my desire!. What a story of my life!
I haven't tell you why I feel nervous. Next blog post (next time)
Sunday, January 19, 2014
I think I miss Sydney (again)
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| My first and last visit to Tarong Zoo |
It has been 6 months and a week since I left Sydney for good. I completed my final exam in June 2013 and I left Sydney on 13th July 2013. It feels like it was just yesterday. Sometimes, I feel myself is still in Sydney; not because I don't like to return back but the nostalgia and memories are still clearly visible.
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| While on a ferry- with Sydney Bridge at the back |
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| Having a gup of Cappucino at Gloria jeans, City Square |
Job Hunting Secrets
" In Malaysia, the unemployment rate is increasing, yet we have a lot of fresh and old graduates who are still looking to find jobs. We have many opening available yet many of them are still there to be filled. What do you think the factors that contributes this unemployment issues?".Strategy to get yourself hired
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So if you are interested to work in the same company as your friend, you should ask help from your friends to 'advertise' you to their manager. You might ask, what if the recommended friend is not a potential candidates, you lie about their working credibility for sake of helping a friend?. Maybe it might happen but many will avoids those from happen.
When someone recommend a friend to their boss, they will only recommend their friends who has potential. You don't want to get blame by your boss to get not-worth candidates which will lower your image in the company. You must consider this before recommending a friend to work in the same company as you.
Since your friend know you well, your friend will/will not advertise yourself to their manager depending on your strengths and weakness.
Besides that, your networks friends might know some opening in their companies and can direct you to the right person to contact.
I also learned that, before I quit my job from the shops, my manager asked me to recommend anyone I know to work with them. It didn't happen once but twice. From there I learned that it is easy to get a job via networking.
Currently people are using a famous website for job hunting via networking. It is called Linkedln. I learned from a friend that one of his colleagues receive a lot of job offers each month through Linkedln. Linkedln also the medium which helped his colleagues to get a job in Brunei.
So Lesson no 2: Good networking with people- and get job via networking
I learned this strategy from a friend who works in BLNG- this technique was recommended by her Manager.
When I showed my profile page to some of my friends, many believed a long profile page shouldn't be put in a resume. Many of us still want to follow old-traditional methods of resume styled. We need to crack an interview hidden secrets to secure a job. We need to understand the reason behind those profile page.
I would recommend, everyone should have a profile page attached with their resume.
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If you still can't realised the difference between profile page and resume; in resume, you only put your experiences and etc in bullets points without elaboration. Whereas, in Profile Page - you link your experiences to your strange, and how these strange will benefits the company.
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Oil news is coming
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| Failure of BlowOut Prevention (BOP) in Mario game! |
Tariq Ramadan rejects Hudud?
In late October 2013, Tariq Ramadan was invited to give a public lecture at the University of Brunei Darussalam. About 100 people consists of students and public attended the afternoon scheduled lecture. I can't recall the topic discussed but it was interesting but hard to be understood by engineer student (me).
Tariq Ramadan view on Hudud
On November 2013, Brunei Times published a complete article interview with Tariq Ramadan regarding the proposed Shariah Penal code in Brunei. I was shocked and confused on regards to which side Tariq Ramadan actually standing regarding to Hudud.
"I launched a call about 10 years ago suspending the [three punishments in the] penal code. The three things - stoning, the death penalty and corporal punishment. Saying to the Muslim-majority countries, you first have to start with what is the beginning [of Syariah] - social justice, education for all, protection of citizenships, whatever is religion. " - Tariq Ramadan (source: click here)
However, based on the above quote, we can see that Tariq Ramadan is actually proposing for a moratorium (temporary banning) of 3 Hudud punishments from Shariah Penal Code in any coutries implementing Shariah law. This article received less/no objection from anyone in the country (based on my reading and research).
After reading this Brunei Times article, I shared with my colleagues and asked for their feedbacks. Most were not aware about the moratorium proposal by Tariq Ramadan as published by Brunei Times. Although Tariq Ramadan clearly mentioned his points about the moratorium, unfortunately the mentioned reasons are not strong enough to stop muslims from still go for Hudud.
Authentic hadiths about Stoning for adultery
The hudud about stoning for is clearly mentioned by Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) as reported in several Sahih Bukhari hadiths. The following authentic hadith is among tens hadiths available about stoning for adultery.
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: The Jews came to Allah's Apostle and told him that a man and a woman from amongst them had committed illegal sexual intercourse. Allah's Apostle said to them, "What do you find in the Torah (old Testament) about the legal punishment of Ar-Rajm (stoning)?" They replied, (But) we announce their crime and lash them." Abdullah bin Salam said, "You are telling a lie; Torah contains the order of Rajm." They brought and opened the Torah and one of them solaced his hand on the Verse of Rajm and read the verses preceding and following it. Abdullah bin Salam said to him, "Lift your hand." When he lifted his hand, the Verse of Rajm was written there. They said, "Muhammad has told the truth; the Torah has the Verse of Rajm. The Prophet then gave the order that both of them should be stoned to death. ('Abdullah bin 'Umar said, "I saw the man leaning over the woman to shelter her from the stones." Sahih Bukhari 4:56:829
more hadith regarding hudud can be read here
Tariq Ramadhan launches attack on Hudood (2005)
In 2005, Tariq Ramadan published a paper relating to his disagreement or certain hudud punishments from being carried (Read here).
Some of texts from his calling for temporary banning of certain hudud punishments.
"The application of the Islamic penal code - known by the widely misunderstood term sharia - in Muslim societies is one of the most controversial subjects in the dialogue between the west and the Muslim world. The imposition of corporal punishment, stoning and execution in the name of religious texts on an entire society cannot be accepted. We must condemn such repressive applications, which are carried out without due legal process." -Tariq Ramadan ((Read here).
This article received many condemnation and frustration from many Ulama.
And the same call was ordered by Tariq during his visit in Brunei on last October 2013.
Hadith about people rejecting Rajam
Narrated By Ibn Abbas: 'Umar Ibn Al Khattab Said, "I am afriad that after a long time has passed away, people may say we do not find the verses of rajam(Stoning to Death) in the Holy Book, and consequently they may go astray by leaving an obligation that Allah has revealed. Lo! I confirm that the Penalty of Rajam be inflicted on him who commits illegal sexual intercource, if he is already married, and the crime is proved by witnesses, pregnancy or confession." Sufyan added, "I have memorised the narration in this way. "Umar added, "Surely Allah's Apostle carried out the penalty of Rajam, and so did we after him". - Sahih Bukhari, Vol8, Book 82. Punishment of Disbelievers At War. Hadith Number 816.
Sultan' Titah on Hudud
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“WHO ARE WE, in the presence of Allah (SWT), to say ‘no or wait’; considering that (Islamic) law was not only formulated, but has been stated in Al-Quran and Al-Hadiths for more than 1,400 years.”
"We have no other choice than to obey all of Allah’s (SWT) commands.”
“If we are still saying no or wait first, (then) this does not make sense,” His Majesty said.
Replies on Tariq's call
My comment
Sometimes I wonder if liberalism make people to reject Allah's order in order to please human preferences. Unfortunately, human will never feel satisfy and always find reason to fulfill their nafs (nafsu). This reminds me of a story about shadow, if you want to catch a shadow, you won't be able to catch it. So don't follow the shadow, but turns away from the shadow, the shadow will follows you. This is the same about Dunya, don't follow the duniya, lets the duniya follows you.
and again, I am here not to judge either Tariq' decision on Hudud is right or no. He has his own reasons like what he had mentioned. And this discussion not means to blame or condemn anyone.
Monday, January 13, 2014
Special Edition: No RIP condolence by muslim to non-muslim?
When your sin is better than your deen
(ibn al-Qayyim alfawaid p122)
Sometimes, it is better to remain silent than to speak out
"Don't criticize them; they are just what we would be under similar circumstances..."
We have to understand people' feeling and being respectful to everyone. We don't want to attack people. However, our action and words , sometimes, hurting people without we realising it : or we only realised it when it is too late. We thought our good intention will bring positive result every time; no it is not. When you hurt people's feeling, do you think your action is right?
We don't want to be the reason why people move away from Allah... we don't want our spoken out become the reason for a fight or for a hurt..
We must workout an alternative how to speak this thing out in a better way, where it will make people think and realise the mistake without hurting their feeling.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Praying can prevent people from stealing
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Friday, January 10, 2014
Mosque breakin- hints about failure in welfare in the country?
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| 12/14 mosques were break in within 10 days |
Dream vs reality
It is not right if we want to punish these people if they were actually in serious trouble to survive in the country. These criminal acts should be study and to be understood in order to make improvement in the welfare of people in this country. The failure in providing necessary help (financially, motivations and etc) could led to this crimes.
To stop them is to study them
We always says, our country is peaceful, everyone live in harmony and the country is about to have a null digit in poverty. If this is true, Alhamduliah.
But problems in economy, rising unemployment, low salary and wages could become reason or to trigger these criminal activities to happen. I am not making a statement but just pointing out the possibilities.
Regards,
Sunday, January 5, 2014
Menyesal sahaja tiada guna
(Ibnu Masud)
Friday, January 3, 2014
Shale gas- criticized source but we still want to own one
| Oil Shale- the unconventional oi supply. (photo at energy digital) |































