Sometimes, it is better to remain silent than to speak out

"Don't criticize them; they are just what we would be under similar circumstances..."

We have to understand people' feeling and being respectful to everyone. We don't want to attack people. However, our action and words , sometimes,  hurting people without we realising it : or we only realised it when it is too late. We thought our good intention will bring positive result every time; no it is not. When you hurt people's feeling, do you think your action is right?

We don't want to be the reason why people move away from Allah... we don't want our spoken out become the reason for a fight or for a hurt..

We must workout an alternative how to speak this thing out in a better way, where it will make people think and realise the mistake without hurting their feeling.